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SMART rules for adults to share with children
When you are dealing with children there are no hard and fast rules. A child’s ability to understand safety rules and to put them into practice depends on a number of things including how old the child is, how the child has been educated or even how confident the child is. To help a child learn any set of rules it is important to go through them and explain why you want the child to remember them. There is no ‘one-size-fits’ all but here are a few suggestions.
Secrets. These can be good fun, but if they make us sad or confused it’s best to check them out with mum or dad or someone else you trust.
Mates. Take someone with you when you are going somewhere and stay together.
Always tell your parents, carer or someone else you trust where you are going, who you are with and when you will be back.
Respect your body and remember it is private. No one has the right to touch you on your private areas (those covered by your swim suit).
Tell your parents, carer or someone else you trust if someone or something makes you feel uncomfortable or frightened.
Our resources are free to download, and we want to continue to provide free information and research to help adults, parents and carers protect children from harm. However, as a charity we have limited funds available to develop and print materials and we welcome support from individuals. If you are interested in making a donation to help support our work please follow this link.
There are also SMART Rules that help adults consider some of the issues.